"A gift of words" is a term I heard used time and time again by one of my professors in college. She would say that one of the greatest gifts you could ever give another person was a gift of words. I can't tell you the number of times I've been reminded of that statement when I've received a sweet note from a family member or a written thank-you from a friend. Those "gifts of words" make me feel like the most important person in the world at that moment. What could be a better gift than that!?
So I've challenged myself through these years to be a note writer. Even if it's on a post-it, scribbled in crayon. There is never an act too small that doesn't deserve a "thank you" and it's so much more meaningful when put to pen.
How many times have you received a card when all it had inside was the card poem and a signature? Not much thought put into that! It's easy to rush through the card aisle, grab the first card you see (preferably one that plays music), scribble in your name, lick, seal and send. Hmmmm.....what about sitting down with pen and paper, thinking about what the person has done for you or means to you and conveying your deepest feelings or thanks.
Then there are the notes and letters to send to people for no reason at all....just to tell them you are thinking of them. What a gift!
Thoughts and idea:
>Letters sent through mail are extra special
>Ecards are fun and many are free (but make sure you write a message inside)
>You don't have to splurge on an expensive card. Invest in inexpensive stationary. It will last you a long time.
>Notes don't always have to be long. Quality over quantity.
>Send a note of thanks for even the smallest acts of kindness. Even if people have just been a blessing or example to you, they deserve a thanks.
> Think of those who maybe don't have family, many friends or the elderly who are shut in or in a nursing home.